"If it is already past, there is no use to hook on it. Why not stepping out the comfort zone?"
She is not a brave woman, but a woman willing to learn from life. She was raised in a small Island in the Pacific Ocean. Her home country is not her home. She lost the time spending with her family and friends becasue of her mission. Maybe because of all it, she learned the only way to survive is to step forward, even it is painful and there would be lots of nights with tears. When she shared her experience to me, she was like talking about someone else's issue. I guess she has already found a position to put herself in.
Yesterday monring, a song recalled me lots of memories. The song I used to sing with my friends. We were always together. But as time past, they were no longer by my side. Suddenly I realize, if there is "friendship forever", it's a bonus to life. You can't earn it. When you lose it, don't be surprise. It is not a "problem". It is just the life should be. And you will find new friends, have new adventures with them. And they will inspire you the other side of the world.
Staying in comfort zone is safe. But the zone will rotten someday, like the book "Who stole my cheese?" said. It is not someone stole the cheese. The cheese will be all gone someday. So speaking to myself, go adventure. Find new cheese. There are thousands kind of cheese out there. You will know Chevre, Gruyere, Cheddar, Mozzarella and Blue Stilton, instead looking at the empty box once full of Parmensan. (Btw, Camembert is my favourite now.)
My favourite quote from that book: "What will you do if you are not scared?"
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